Help!  I Am Influenced by Shane’s Moods!

Help! I Am Influenced by Shane’s Moods!

    Help! I Am Influenced By Shane’s Moods! Me I find myself being very much influenced by Shane’s moods. If he is in a bad mood, or even just very quiet, I find myself getting depressed and wanting him to cheer up, trying things to make him cheer up. I generally nag him to talk about his problems if he is being quiet, or I nag him to stop watching telly and do something constructive. If he is laughing and jolly, it makes me laugh and be jolly too. Or if he is being kind and thoughtful and loving, that makes me happy. I find it very difficult to have my mood be independent of his feelings and behaviour. Is that actually possible?  I asked the angels what they think! A A wonderful question! You may not have noticed, but this is a problem –or shall we say challenge?- which affects most people, this business of being affected by the moods of others, particularly the moods of the people that you live with. The brief answer to your question is yes. Yes it is possible for you to have your moods be independent of other people’s moods and behaviour. Let us now discuss how this is possible. First of all, and perhaps most importantly, you need to want to have your own moods! You may think that this is a given, but we assure you that it is not. Many of you are so accustomed to involving yourselves in the lives of others that you cannot even imagine being emotionally independent of other people, and because you cannot imagine...
Help! My chakras are blocked!

Help! My chakras are blocked!

  Help!  My Chakras are blocked!   I went for an Indian head massage, and the healer told me my chakras are blocked.  He says I need to speak my truth.  I hate it when people tell me stuff like that because there isn’t anything I can do about it, or if there is something, I don’t know what it is! I think I do speak my truth!  To me that just sounds like a cliché.  Are my chakras blocked?  Is there anything I can do?   A   Dearest one, we understand your frustration!  There is a great deal of confusion about the energy centres that you call ‘chakras’, and the way in which they operate and the ways that you can be affected by their behaviour!  Perhaps we can assist, by shedding a little light on the subject?   Me   Be my guests!   A   To begin with, it is true that your bodies and minds, and of course your emotions are all being affected continually by the movement of energy throughout your systems.  You can easily become aware of this when you are really feeling good, when you feel truly vibrant, energetic and alive, and when you feel totally ‘in the flow.’  You have experienced this feeling, many times.   Me   This is true.  I know that feeling.  I am not really feeling it at the moment.  I have a cold, and I feel down.  I feel frustrated and tired and pessimistic.  But I do remember feeling that way!   A   Indeed.  Perhaps as you focus on these feelings, you can become...
Help!  I am Constantly Critical!

Help! I am Constantly Critical!

This is a conversation that I had with the angels about the horrors of being constantly critical of everything. Me My Human Self is very critical of everything, especially of myself. I know the soul self sees the good in everything. The soul self does not spend her time mentally complaining about everything in her life. I have a problem with this! I seem to have no control over how I am thinking and responding to my world.  Quite often, from the minute I wake up in the morning until the minute I go to sleep, I am complaining about everything I see and everything that is happening, and I am automatically criticising and finding fault with stuff. For instance, I might begin by being annoyed with myself for sleeping late, or for not wanting to get out of bed.  Then I will be irritated by little things like the lid of the toothpaste, or hairs in the sink, or dirt on the rugs.  I just wont feel good about the day ahead and I will be annoyed with myself for not feeling good! I go to the same place to get my coffee every morning, and I tell myself that I will be patient and appreciative of the fact that I can afford coffee every morning, but I am never actually patient and appreciative, I am generally in a hurry and I get irritated if they get little things wrong, like for instance if they don’t put enough chocolate on top, or if they don’t stamp my loyalty card, or if they give me a small when I...

A conversation with the angels about cancer

Help!  I am afraid of getting cancer! Me Lots of people my age are getting cancer.  I know of at least three people with breast cancer.  And quite a few more with other kinds.  I find myself looking for lumps and wondering how I will cope with chemotherapy and what it would be like to wear a wig.  I have even been buying wigs!   It seems  that there is no way to know if you will get cancer, and no way to really know for sure that you can prevent it.  Maybe I will get cancer?  Will I be able to cope, if I do? I am scared.  I am also scared that the more I am secretly scared of it, the more likely it is to happen.  It seems to happen so suddenly and unexpectedly. I have become a total hypochondriac!  I find myself constantly reading stuff about illness, and buying vitamins and trying to make sure I don’t get cancer! The more I obsess about my health, the more I discover things to worry about!  I do all kinds of healthy things and take loads of supplements, but everyone seems to have a different opinion about what you should be taking or doing!  I try to pay attention to all of the theories, but they confuse me and they don’t stop me worrying.  I really want to relax!  I want to feel safe.  I want to be able to trust my body!  Please can you help? A This is an important question to address, this fear of cancer.  It is all the more important because as...

Is There a Trick to Manifesting?

This is a conversation I had with the angels about manifesting stuff. Help! I am confused about manifesting. Please can you explain it as clearly as possible, so that I can really understand how it works? A Greetings!  Yes, indeed we see and understand that you are confused.  ‘I want this thing, I visualise it, I imagine how it will feel to have it.  I do everything that the books and gurus tell  me to do.  And yet I do not have the thing! Why?’  Is this what you are asking? Me Yes!  I thought I understood the process of manifesting.  But it doesn’t always work for me.  How can I actually get it?  Is THERE A TRICK? A Indeed there is a trick.  And so we shall speak about the ‘trick’ to manifesting what you want. The trick is very simple.  And yet, for many of you it is not so easy to master! The trick is this.   Really believing in the benevolence of the creative force, the force that you call God or the Universe or the All-That-Is, the Universal Omniverse.  Believing that this force intends love and good things for you, instead of pain and struggle.  The trick is to feel so at one with this force that it never enters your mind to doubt it’s intention for you.  The trick is to feel yourself to be part of this loving, creative force. The trick is believing this so completely that you are never disturbed by what happens to you in your world. Believing it so completely that you know for certain that anything and everything...

Help! I don’t trust the Universe!

This is a conversation I had with the angels about trusting the Universe. I have been having a problem actually trusting that things will turn out for the best. We are moving house, so I  asked the angels to help me to visualise and imagine a new and better house that would have all the advantages of the old house but without the disadvantages.   I visualised it having lots of space and a sunny garden with a shed.  I also visualised it being very close to shops and cafes and the beach.  And being very bright and clean and spacious, with a great kitchen. I looked on the internet and there was a house that looked absolutely perfect.  Exactly what I wanted.  So I called the estate agent first thing and asked to view it. When I got there, the house was even more perfect than I had visualised it!  It was absolutely gorgeous.  I wanted it.  But there was a slight problem.  There was a man already viewing it and he wanted it too!  So the estate agent said she will tell the owners and they will decide who to give it to.  I had not foreseen this, as a possibility.  I realised that I  don’t trust that I can have what I want, even if I have been able to picture it.  The fact that this other man wants it and the fact that the owner didn’t immediately accept my offer makes me worry that I wont get it. Please help me!  I realise that I have doubts that I will get the good stuff.  I...

What do the angels think about the government?

I have been wondering what the angels might think about the government of Ireland, or indeed the governments of all the other countries, because I cant help feeling that pretty much all governments are corrupt and incompetent.  I know this is  very negative, but try as I might,  I do not have any positive thoughts about the government. I am assuming angels don’t think negatively.  So I asked them what they think. Me. I am assuming you have a more positive viewpoint than I do about our government, and I would be curious to know what it is. Also, do you think there is any hope of this country getting a decent government anytime soon? A. From our perspective it would appear that there is very little support for your government, not only from the people of your country, but also from within the government itself!  Many people are critical of the way in which your country has been run. Me.  That is an understatement.  The country is in a mess! A.                    We understand that you feel that way.  We do not necessarily see it that way, but we understand your perspective. Me.  So how do you see it? A.                    Perhaps we can attempt to explain our position!  Supposing you were a painter, an artist who worked with colours.  In your studio, you might have many, many different coloured paints from which to choose.  In order to create new shades, you would often blend some of your existing paints.  Do you follow? Me.  Yes of course.  I have often watched artists mixing paints to get a new colour. A.                    As a result of this process, there will be many different shades created on the palette.  Some of them will...
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