People are channelling their inner bitches in a good way!

‘Channelling Your Inner Bitch’ workshops came about because both my colleague Sarah Mc Candliss and I both knew that we were putting up with s**t in our lives, tolerating stuff that was making us angry, frustrated, resentful and most of all DRAINED of energy. But we both knew that it is SCARY to stand up for yourself, scary to rock the boat and risk disapproval and conflict….like a lot of people we just wanted everyone else to be really happy and to love us a lot and think we were the nicest people they knew….. But it wasn’t working. Because we were always saying yes to doing things for other people even if it was exhausting and leaving no time for our own work/health/social lives, people didn’t like us, they were scared of us!  Scared because we were irritable and cranky and prone to smashing plates and stomping around slamming doors (okay, that was just me) And so, we devised ‘Channelling You Inner Bitch’, a workshop to take people through the steps that are needed to take us from martyrs and wimps to strong, confident and assertive people. Okay, at first it is not easy.  And yes, there is a risk that some people might not approve of you, when you tell them that you wont go to their party, do their washing, listen to their bullshit, clean up their mess……… But it is worth it when you realise two thing. One….you didn’t die.  They didn’t die.  You are both still alive. Two….  You now have  all that extra time and energy that you used to spend doing stuff...

Would you be scared to channel your inner bitch?

Sarah and I have been doing loads of publicity for the Channelling Your Inner Bitch workshops. We got on Tubridy, The RTE Today Show and had the cover of the Sunday Independent Living section.  And even though we are getting a very positive response, lots and lots of people telling us they NEED to be more clear and assertive about what they want and need in their relationships so that they can have more energy, more peace of mind and a sense of being heard and respected by the people in their lives, there is one big elephant in the room which we had not even thought of!Channelling your inner bitch can mean having to be honest in situations that in the past you just let slide, pretended not to care about or really did not want to be honest about.  And that can be SCARY!!!! After all, we generally pretend to be fine with things for a reason, we don’t want to rock the boat, upset the apple cart, cause trouble, start a row, or make people not like us! And that is all fine, if the behaviour or the situations that we are putting up with are not causing us too much distress.  But if they are stressing us out, eating us up inside, making us angry and resentful so that we let the resentment spill over into other areas of our lives and affect the rest of our relationships, if they drag us down and cause us to feel like martyrs or doormats or hard done by or victimised, they can not only affect our health...
Angel Guidance via email

Angel Guidance via email

Recently, I have been doing a lot of channelled guidance via email……you just email me a question and I tune in and ask the angels to dictate the answer. It seems to be working very well, and I have had a number of lovely testimonials. A great way to get guidance for one burning issue without having to make an appointment and come and see me!

What would YOU ask the Angels Advice About?

What would YOU ask the Angels Advice About?

I have had LOTS of questions for the angels to advise me about over the years.  But it would be lovely to know what you want help with, because there is a chance that I might run out of problems!  And I do love asking for advice….  So please contact me and let me know what topics you would like advice about.  Please note that they need to be general enough for everyone to benefit from the advice, if you do have a specific problem or challenge and you want advice that is personal, you can always book a reading in person or on...
A Lovely new Testimonial!

A Lovely new Testimonial!

Obviously I LOVE to get testimonials, it makes me feel that I really do have something of value to share and that is a terrific buzz!!!! Here is a new one from Natalie, who had a session on Skype I wasn’t too sure what to expect in my Victoria Mary session. It went effortlessly. The communication from the other side was crystal clear. And it was so freaking uplifting. I wrote everything down as VM spoke and I’ve gone back and reviewed what she communicated several times. Each time, I feel better and better. It was time and money well spent....
Help!  I Hate this Crap Weather!

Help! I Hate this Crap Weather!

  I find it hard not to feel gloomy when the weather is gloomy. Especially when it is supposed to be summer, and I would ideally like to be spending some time out of doors!   I wondered what the angels would feel about bad weather, so I asked them. Sometimes the bad weather is not so bad because I am busy doing things indoors.  But after a while it gets tedious.  And I just find that I am more ‘down’ than up, when the weather is bad.  How would my Angel Self feel about bad weather?   A   It is perfectly natural to have preferences.  You enjoy being out of doors and you prefer not to be getting wet, at least not when you are wearing clothes!  You are asking how your Angel Self would view this situation, and how the response of your soul might be different to that of your human self.  The first thing you might notice about your soul’s response is that it is fully accepting of the weather, just exactly as it is.  As you are writing this, it is raining outside.  What are some of the thoughts that go through the mind, as you consider the rain?   Me.   How unfair it is.  What a pain in the ass it is.  What a waste of a summer.  How depressing, how disappointing.  I think about how people in other countries are enjoying sunshine right now, while I am here in Ireland where it is always raining.  On a bad day, I think about staying in bed.  Or I think about how...
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